tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post6701644649276439521..comments2024-01-19T05:19:55.843-08:00Comments on How's That For Esoteric!: Conjuring Up A SuitorPhoenixAngelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02628182447302904322noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-81403640496216400632011-07-01T21:08:09.255-07:002011-07-01T21:08:09.255-07:00Rob: There IS a difference between occult girls an...Rob: There IS a difference between occult girls and junkie/ psychiatric patients.<br />Sure, quite some folks who are suffering from psychosis think they have a 6th sense. And meth users should quit the do. Don't let them discourage you.<br /><br />I also know how hard it is to find a partner who's into occultism. i havent found him yet myself. In my country we're a very small minority. And in general I don't even discuss these matters with my partner. sad in one way, but to me occultism is a very private thing; I do have some long time friends who practise, but I keep things seperated as much as possible. Still it would be nice to have a true soulmate.<br /><br />Wishing you the best.<br />93LalaLiefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335645520983292606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-26693836822480759932011-06-16T06:31:21.085-07:002011-06-16T06:31:21.085-07:00Frater Rob: You're a sweet guy and I will say ...Frater Rob: You're a sweet guy and I will say prayers that you find the girl of your dreams who is worthy of your awesomeness. Thanks for the advice. ((bow))PhoenixAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02628182447302904322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-91473810511750072732011-06-16T00:42:52.823-07:002011-06-16T00:42:52.823-07:00Have you tried the New Age community? I have a cou...Have you tried the New Age community? I have a cousin in LA who's into the whole New Age scene, and he's single and looking and very close to a male version of what you described yourself as. Not really an occultist, but he's open enough to it, and he seems typical of the New Agers I've met. I think you'd find a lot more eligible and suitable bachelors in that community. I know I've met quite a few eligible and suitable bachelorettes there. Granted you'd have to deal with crap like being asked if you've ever seen a ghost.<br /><br />As for me, I'm awesome in every way, but especially in regards to physical attractiveness and penis size, so my situation doesn't really make sense.<br /><br />I usually don't do so bad when I meet a girl. The problem is, it's very rare that I meet one in the community that I would be interested in dating. I hear stories about these attractive single girls in the community who are desperate for boyfriends, and I figure there must be some sort of group or order or coven that they're all going to, but I swear that meet-up is like frickin' El Dorado. <br /><br />I think you're right that you're missing signals if you're not getting any suitors. I could just as easily describe the men in the community in the same way I described the women, except they lack the anger issues, and some are grotesquely thin. I'm guessing your problem isn't with suitors, but that it's just as difficult for you to even meet a halfway descent single man as it is for me to meet a halfway descent single girl. <br /><br />As for what's wrong with you, you're probably too good. You'd be out of the league of most of the guys in the community that I've met. I'd give up the nicotine habit though. It'll open up a few more dating doors, and it's unseemly for a magician to have an addiction anyways.Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15339922041233122021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-73851512325921842952011-06-15T20:34:41.932-07:002011-06-15T20:34:41.932-07:00@Frater Rob: I live in Bakersfield CA in the San J...@Frater Rob: I live in Bakersfield CA in the San Joaquin Valley (a short trip from your home base). Albeit, there are women here that meet your description to a certain extent such as obesity or mental illness, for the most part, my sisters here are beautiful strong women. I am one of the few that are single though.<br /><br />My Leo pride is raging at this point and I do not want my dear readers to get the wrong impression of me. I do have to tell you that I am quite sane, responsible, a consummate educated professional engineer with a vested retirement plan, middle aged (but I look like I'm in my late 20s or early 30s), no addictions (except nicotine), cultured (love museums, music and fine wine), and a dress size of 4. I also have a great personality but I do have a tendency to be too quiet in person. As for anger issues, I tend to fume a bit when people anger me and occasionally I suffer from "stick my foot in my mouth" disease. I do seek balance, everyday though. As for my looks, I have been told that I am unattractive by some and "cute" by others. It's a mixed bag. I have been told tho, that when I smile I light up the room. I ask you, what is wrong with me? There has been no suitors, except for casual sex, which is few and far between. I think perhaps I am completely oblivious to the signals of interested parties.<br /><br />As for you Rob, I cannot provide you with advice because I really do not know your situation.<br /><br />It wasn't England, the pervert was a dark-haired manPhoenixAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02628182447302904322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-57450919107793418522011-06-15T19:11:34.715-07:002011-06-15T19:11:34.715-07:00Where is this magical land you live in where there...Where is this magical land you live in where there are all these occultist girls searching for good men? <br /><br />I've had the exact opposite luck. The vast majority of single occult girls I've met have been either morbidly obese, nearly twice my age, or just plain ugly, and usually a combination of at least two of these things. I lead with the looks because considering their personalities, their looks are their best quality. Most suffer from severe psychiatric disorders and have serious anger management issues, and this is in addition to being slothful, uncultured, usually chronically unemployed, and not very bright.<br /><br />The few really attractive, or even moderately attractive, girls I've been introduced to have had some serious psychological problems and are usually addicted to hard drugs, mostly meth. It seems next to impossible to find an unspoken for girl that is somewhat physically and psychologically attractive, and not insane, in the community. I can literally count all of the ones I've met over the years on my hands, and there's a lot of competition for those girls because you never really see that.<br /><br />Any advice on what I'm doing wrong would be appreciated. <br /><br />By the way, are you sure that wasn't Robert England? Granted Robert England is still really gross, but at least he has the celebrity thing going for him. Sort-of kind-of anyways.Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15339922041233122021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-29966194240697282122011-06-14T17:15:02.377-07:002011-06-14T17:15:02.377-07:00Ananael Qaa: I love those words. I will have to gi...Ananael Qaa: I love those words. I will have to give them a try. Thanks!PhoenixAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02628182447302904322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-31104881490927138912011-06-14T17:13:44.491-07:002011-06-14T17:13:44.491-07:00thanks nutty! i think i did pretty good too. resul...thanks nutty! i think i did pretty good too. results are results, even if they are a lil sleazy. thanks! :)PhoenixAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02628182447302904322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-53478036909305749742011-06-14T08:44:13.185-07:002011-06-14T08:44:13.185-07:00Here's my personal favorite statement of inten...Here's my personal favorite statement of intent for spells like this:<br /><br />"Bring me a partner who is in harmony with my will and whose will I am in harmony with."<br /><br />"Partner" can be replaced with "suitor" or whatever term you feel best fits what you're looking for in a relationship. It's simple, to the point, and in my experience works quite well.Scott Stenwickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12389664381513219613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-52361958013823800812011-06-14T07:08:04.158-07:002011-06-14T07:08:04.158-07:00There are few people that do magick that don't...There are few people that do magick that don't have a similar story with this kind of magick. Grin.Roberthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10144040453666802786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-72700756079749882.post-20372625393451373252011-06-14T06:43:28.956-07:002011-06-14T06:43:28.956-07:00...well at least your ritual worked. For 15 minute......well at least your ritual worked. For 15 minutes of magickal work I would say you did pretty good! Hilarious!Yvonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01026789923089919199noreply@blogger.com